In the New Testament, the Apostle Paul says, giving advice spouses : „Love and obey yourselves.“ In the Bible, God has given man all the instructions it needs to live the life on earth. This guide of love and respect is essential, as well as other instructions provided by the Apostle Paul. Today we have the highest number of divorces, more than ever before in human history, because there is non-compliance with this rule by the spouses. Speaking through St. Paul, the Holy Spirit knew what Paul should advises the man and woman to have a successful marriage that will overcome all the temptations to which the same marriage put the life.
I think that with adultery, this rule often tempted. Just recall how many times have we all been in a situation, I think the spouses, neither of which comes to fighting. When each of us imagined a little better over the reasons for the conflict that preceded it, we would conclude that the fights are almost pointless and gratuitous . The situation for these temptations abound. Most pointless and probably the most common is when the argument is in fact without a reason. It is sufficient that he or she is currently nervous or upset, or a bad mood and to get to the speed and reckless ugly words spoken in a raised voice. It is possible that he or she recklessly uttered something that offended the other side. Sometimes the cause is insufficient attention .
Suppose she had prepared lunch or dinner and he do not call that he will be late. Maybe not comes at all. Usual return from an exhausting day are times when both parties expect the attention and understanding by „dying“ on the job. All we ever uttered something that we repent later. Luckily love is stronger than the insult inflicted these wounds and heal over time. However, we should be cautious, it is essential to us that those things do not happen very often. Human nature is imperfect and hence the imperfection of her language spoken in the wrong.
The most important thing is therefore to be careful that this does not happen very often. This is vital because the question is, how much love these pressures in a marriage bond can withstand? The question is what are the limits of endurance and tolerance of human love, man’s love for his wife and vice versa. Such attacks that are manifested with matrimonial feuds can slowly but surely erode the foundations of marriage. When disappears respect, and love will disappear. Our marital law calls this „discrepancy character spouses“ which may be the reason for the divorce judicial. Love of humankind is imperfect, and therefore is „perishable.“ Therefore, you can not through life without her sister, respect. Only the love of God for man is perfect (First Epistle of Paul to the Corinthians, Chapter 13), and such love is self-sufficient and depend of it all the laws and all the prophecies.